it's kind of weird-random day !

Last night I watched a serial movie which the tittle is "How I Met Your Mother". It's so funny, awesome, and attractive one for sure. I like all of the characters there. They have unique personality and bring the different taste that when we combine them in one place there is only one word which suitable. It's "LEGEN..." wait, what is the next..."DARY",,Yup it's legendary said Barney- one of the character in that movie. I couldn't stop watching them although my eyes were so sleepy. The story is about a man named Theodore Mosby or just call him Ted who tell his children about how he met their mother. The story of Ted is described by scenes attractively. It's not only Ted, but in those scenes also Ted's best friends name Marshal Erickson, Lily Aldrin, Robin S, and Barney- and of course another people who has relationship with them until they find "the one who lives for the rest of their life".

The scene that I watched last night about Ted that tried to move on after his broke up with Robin -it was the second broke up with Robin actually. After past uneasy way in forgetting Robin, he found a girl name blah-blah-blah (forget the name) and he wanted to introduce blah-blah to his friends, but unfortunately they didn't like her. Ted was so sad why his friend couldn't like her. He thought blah-blah is a beautiful-nice-hot girl that impossible they couldn't accept, but finally his friends told him why they didn't like her. It was because of she talked soooo much, really that much until everybody was bored. Gather with friends is for sharing anything with each other, so if there is one person that dominated, there will be no sharing at all, won't there.

After he heard that explanation he finally realized that his friends were totally right. He remembered he couldn't tell what he wants because blah-blah didn't give him a chance to speak up, even when they jogged together Ted left her behind because of she talked too much. But he didn't realized at all until his friends told him on that day. The first time Ted knew bad habit of blah-blah, he couldn't admit it to his friends even he a little bit annoyed why they told him about that. As if they had not told him, he would have been still like blah-blah, so he wanted to make a revenge. Than he told Marshal the bad habit of Lily is she chewed so loudly as if there were hard things in her mouth!- Marshal was married with Lily. After realized, Marshal tried to be cool, but he couldn't. Every time Lily eat besides Marshal, he will be really disturbed by her loudly chewing, and finally Marshal told Lily that he don't like the way she eats. Lily who was upset blame Ted, why he told Marshal an important things like that. " I hate Ted, why he always criticize people, he is not perfect too!" she said. Than she told Robin about it, and Robin told Ted what Lily said, but Ted became upset too. He couldn't admit that he had a bad habit. Robin couldn't believe that he is so egoist, she said to Ted that Lily was true. After that Ted told Robin that she had a bad habit too. Robin got used to saying a sentence with an unappropriated word. Marshal was laugh at Robin and though Ted was true too. Than Robin said "you have a bad habit too Marshal, you always hum every time you do any job, and it's disturbing". Barney laugh at them and said " look, you all have bad habit, but me,,hahahhaha".

Aaaaaand everybody than said a lot of Barney's bad habit. Yep, they finally shouted to each other and criticized of course, until Marshal remembered he had to check an announcement about his test graduation become a lawyer. Suddenly Marshal ran to the laptop and cheered loudly, " I DID IT! I BECOME A LAWYER GUYS!!!". Suddenly they all stop fighting and hug Marshal together and go to the bar to celebrate his graduation. And you know what, they do their bad habit along the celebration, and nobody care about it anymore. That whats friend are for, to remind the bad of our beloved friend without thinking of leaving of hate them. And if they can't change than accept it kindly, because you have your own bad habit too ;).

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Yep, that was the scene that I watched last night. I don't know why but it's kind of weird today because I have the same -or similiar condition between that scene and a little incident in my office. You know what, today I speak up the bad habit of my boss in front of his face, yep I said that. Aaaand I feel a little bit guilty to him. I think I'm too hard on him :(. This noon we have a problem in solving tax, so I think I have to find the government rule in the internet. While I searching it, he always bother me and it's really disturbed. He is panic I think, so he can't just sit down calmly. I know the deadline is tomorrow so I think we can make it, we can solve the problem before the deadline. But you know he stiiiiiil bother me with panic. And than finally I said
" I think you should just leave me and wait for my searching patiently, I can't work with you that always bother me, it's so disturbing, can you please just calm down??"
And he said " what? what you said? I can't be calm? when I do that thing? I am calm".
"No, you don't !"
" Since when I am not calm in solving problem?"
" Since long time ago, the first problem came to us, you never calm"
"........."
Than he left to pray dzhuhur. Fieeewh,, I said that and I feel like I'm in the movie last night who tell the bad about another people while they don't realize until we tell them. It's make me relieved?mmm I don't think so. It is for the first but I don't know why I'm little bit feel guilty because after pray he comes to me calmly and nicely as if I didn't criticize him at all. But than I remember that he did the same thing- criticize me few moths ago. The first time I couldn't admit it, but than I try to be better. It's a lit bit annoyed but than when you try to make your self better it's kind of you want to thank to the people who criticize you. Maybe he will think that  I don't mean to hurt him, it's just a try to make him better in order to make our relationship become great. Yep we criticized each other and once again it's suck, but I hope it will make us better.

"There is nobody perfect, but we can make a perfect relationship by accept any other imperfection perfectly."